Gayle Lehman

A photo of Gayle Lehman

Service:

Evergreen Cemetery
Saturday November 7, 2026 at 11 a.m.

Golden Acres Curling Club
430 Catherine St, Blenheim
Saturday November 7, 2026 from 1 - 4 p.m.

Gayle Lehman, a long-time resident of Erieau passed away on October 20, 2026.  She will be missed by her children Denise and Graham Brown and Gary and Wanda Lehman, and her grandchildren Aidan, Sarah, Ryan, Hannah and Owen.  She was predeceased by her husband Gary Allan Lehman in 1991, her parents, Margaret Embury and Fredrick Embury and her brother, Bob Embury.

Gayle was also predeceased by her partner of over 25 years, Larry Clark in 2025 and she will be missed by his children Brandy and Chad Minnie, Kendall Haskell and Drew Brown,  Craig and Stacey Clark and grandchildren Evan, Cooper, Ashton, Kaylee, Greyson and Dayton.

They say “Home is where the Heart is” and Gayle’s heart was forever in Erieau.  She was born and raised there, surrounded by extensive family and lifelong friends.  She worked at Erieau Packers, Southwestern Regional Centre, a Daycare and after she retired, she went back to work in the canteen at the Blenheim Arena.

Gayle was a wonderful mother and loved her children deeply.  She was never shy to share a story about them.  She was an even prouder grandmother.  She was kind to everyone she met.  She loved to dance, laugh, eat good food and work in her yard.  She cherished her walks to the water and to the ice cream store in the summer months.  Gayle was happiest sitting by the water or on her front porch, keeping an eye on all the activity on the boulevard.  She shared a beautiful life with Gary raising their kids together before he passed.

Gayle was then fortunate to find love and companionship again with Larry.  Together they travelled to Halifax, spent time sitting by the water, enjoyed rides on Larry’s motorcycle and could often be found in the stands at their grandkid’s hockey games.  She loved life and she was so loved in return.

Gayle also loved “her girls” – Sally, Cathy, Sandy, Gloria and Val…a friendship group that has stood the test of time.  We know there are stories from those years that they will always treasure and probably a few they will never share!

So much respect and thanks to the staff at the Alzheimer’s Society of York Region and CHATS Day programs in Aurora. Gayle spent many days with them over the last few years and was appreciative of her coffee time with her friends. There are also so many that have helped over the last years in caring for Gayle, for whom we have endless gratitude.  Your kindness, patience and support meant more to her, and our family than words can express.  You all know who you are.

Family and friends are invited to gather at Evergreen Cemetery on Saturday, November 7th at 11:00 a.m., when Gayle will be laid to rest.  Family and friends are then invited to a casual Celebration of Gayle’s life at the Golden Acres Curling Club, 430 Catherine Street, Blenheim that will take place from 1-4 pm.  Please join us if you can.

For those wishing to remember Gayle, we ask that you consider making a memorial donation to The Erieau Fire Association. The dedicated men and women of this Association will always hold a special place for the family as Gary served as Fire Chief for many years.   The Association’s support of the Erieau Community is so appreciated.

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  • So sorry to hear of your loss. What a beautiful picture of her our thoughts and prayers are with everyone.
  • Sending sincere condolences to Gail’s family and friends, May she rest in peace with those who went before her
  • Denise and family, our deepest condolences on the loss of your dear mom.
    Vanessa Vanderkaden
  • We are so heartbroken to hear of Gayle's passing. She was so patient and kind, traits on full display in her own children. Our prayers go out to both the Lehman and Brown families as you navigate this time of grief.
    Linda, Bill, Abbey and Sophie (Peckford)
  • So very sorry of your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • I first met Gayle when I was 16 years old and started dating Denise. Back then, Gayle was married to Gary, and after Gary passed away, Larry became her partner and another important part of our family. That is 40+ years of having Gayle in my life, through different life chapters of hers and mine, but time enough to build many wonderful memories.

    Life has a strange way of turning things around on you.

    When you're young, there are people in your life who look after you. They cook your meals, give you advice, help you when you need it and are just always there. You look up to them, respect them and probably more often than we'd like to admit, take for granted and assume they'll always be there. Then, as life can, it throws a curve ball and almost without realizing it, the roles reverse. You're the one looking after them. You're helping them get through the day, giving them encouragement, making decisions for them and trying to give back some of what they gave you.

    Getting older isn't easy for anyone. But those with Alzheimer’s, life can become especially cruel. Cruel to the person living with it, and incredibly hard on the people who love and care for them. Gayle was fortunate in many ways throughout her life, but I don't think she could have been more fortunate than to have Denise as her daughter.

    I've watched Denise care for her mom through tremendous adversity, and I know firsthand how difficult it has been. There were good days, some really tough days, and plenty of days that were immeasurably difficult. Often times living with Alzheimer's can change even simple cognitive abilities, one of which is being able to just say “thank you”. Watching this digression happen and the subtle impact losing this simple gesture can have on two people who love one another immensely, was very hard. Seeing someone relentless in their love regardless, without need for appreciation or acknowledgement was inspirational. Denise never needed a thank you to keep doing what she did. She just kept caring for her mom because she loved her and because Gayle would have done the same for her or for any number of people in her life if ever that need arose.

    Gayle was a wonderful person, right up until her final day. And while she wasn't always able to express her gratitude, she has reminded me of something I think we often forget sometimes: how fortunate we are to still be able to say those two simple words "THANK YOU" to those we love.

    Denise, for everything you did for your mom, especially when she could no longer tell you herself, you always seemed to hear your mom whisper thank you for your care and love, day or night.

    An amazing gift that I will remember and appreciate for the rest of my life.

    Graham
  • Denise Gary and families, I'm so sorry to hear of your moms passing. She really had a beautiful soul, Erieau girls always do! I have many good memories of her.
  • My heartfelt condolences to you Denise, and to your entire family.
  • So sorry to hear the sad news. Gayle and I had many laughs and good times together
  • Condolences and RIP Gayle
  • Sending my love to all in the loss of a beautiful Mother, Mother-in-Law and Grandmother. If love was enough to have kept her here, she would have stayed. May you forever be wrapped warmly in the memories you made with her ... and for her.
    And for my friend Denise -
    "In my daughter's eyes I can see the future
    A reflection of who I am and what will be
    And though she'll grow and someday leave
    Maybe raise a family
    When I'm gone I hope you see
    How happy she made me
    For I'll be there
    In my daughter's eyes" - Martina McBride
  • Sending sincere condolences from the States to all who loved her.
  • So very sorry to hear of Gail's passing .Prayers to family and friends.
  • We are all sorry for your loss. Mom will miss her. The Collins family
  • we are so very sorry to hear the news, she will be in our thoughts and prayers, Gayle grew up with my mom Val , it was a joy to watch their friendships over the years .. thinking of all the family .
  • Our condolences to all of Gayles family and friends.
    Marvin & Sandi Turner
  • Dear Lehman and Clark families: So sorry to hear of Gayle's passing.
  • Our deepest sympathies. Thoughts and prayers are with the families
  • My condolences to Denise Gary and family !
  • Sorry to hear of Gayles passing my thoughts an prayers are with her family and friends