Brenda Wiltenburg

A photo of Brenda Wiltenburg

Brenda Wiltenburg of Blenheim passed away on Thursday April 2, 2026 at the age of 70 years.  She is the daughter of the late Burton & Audrey (Ortelli), and is survived by her brothers Brad Caughy and Murray & Chris Caughy.

Brenda worked as a Paediatric Critical Care Nurse in London.  In March of 1987, she married Ton Wiltenburg and began a life on a farm outside of Blenheim.  Together they raised three children; Rebecca & Terry, Renee & Robert and Len & Joann.  She was blessed with five grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.  She is survived by 4 brothers-in-law and 2 sisters-in law in Holland.

Brenda will be remembered fondly as an honorary mother to many children who she babysat over the years.  She was a kind and caring person whose life was spent making the lives of those she cared for a little bit better.  She will be missed.

Brenda’s wish was not to have a funeral.  If you want to do something in her memory, give your children an extra hug and let them know how proud you are of them.  If you choose to make a memorial donation, choose a charity that is close to your heart.

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  • So sorry to hear the passing of Brenda she was a great person, we always had great visits when she came to get her haircut.
  • Dear Ton and family.
    Sending our love and prayers to you on the loss of your dear wife, Brenda.
    “The eternal God is Thy refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms”
    Deuteronomy 33:27
    May God’s loving embrace comfort your heart.
    Kees and Hillie
  • We are so deeply sorry and saddened of Brenda's passing. Our hearts go out to Ton, Len and all of your family. Brenda was such a wonderful caregiver to our grandson, teaching and caring for him so much. She had such a warm heart and beautiful smile. Keep her precious memories forever.
  • Our deepest condolences to Ton and the family! Her smile and laughter will be missed!
  • Dear Len, I am saddened to hear about your mom. May memories of the love and laughter be by your side.
    Fondly Rosemary Tonkin
  • Sending my thoughts and prayers to the family. Brenda was a kind, generous girl.
  • So sorry to read of Brenda’s passing, Ton. Our sincere sympathy to all the family.
  • My condolences to the family of Ton and Brenda. My she rest in peace.
  • Thinking of you and your family, and wishing you peace, comfort, and strength in the days ahead. Brenda’s caring and kind nature will always be remembered and cherished by all who knew her.

    Stephanie (Cofell) Lachine and family
  • Ton and family. We're so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
  • Our family is forever thankful that Brenda decided to quit nursing to start her daycare. When anyone would compliment us on how well behaved our girls were, we would always say “the key is to hire a good babysitter!”. She was like family and we will miss her around the campfire.
  • Ton and family,
    We are so saddened to hear of Brenda’s passing. She was the most gentle, caring and fun caregiver. We all loved her so much. Thinking of you at this time.
    Brad, Andrea, Ben and Bridget Knowler
  • Len and Joann so very sorry for your loss . Condolences to both Caughy and Wiltenburg families.
  • Thinking of you Ton and family at this difficult time. Brenda was a great lady, witty and fun to be around. She will be missed. My condolences.
  • Hi Len and Joann: I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear mom. Sending you wonderful memories to keep her memory alive

    Willy and Agnes
  • So sorry for the loss of Brenda, sincere condolences at this time.
  • Brenda was a great lady lots of fun best heart she loved all her daycare kids like her own..Ton and her spoiled them..condolences to Ton and family
  • My condolences to the families.
  • Ton & Family,
    Brenda was a wonderful person and will be missed by so many. She played an important role in our boys childhood, and became an extension of our family. We are so grateful to have had her in our lives. Hold close the many memories you have - I know we will. Thinking of all of you.
  • Wiltenburg, Caughy and families,
    Sincere condolences to the family.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Peter & Linda