Marvin Ellwood Nicholas Handsor

A photo of Marvin Ellwood Nicholas Handsor

Service:

Blenheim Community Funeral Home
Saturday September 28, 2024
12:00

Visitation:

Blenheim Community Funeral Home
Saturday September 28, 2024
10:00 - 12:00

On Wednesday September 25, 2024 our husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother and uncle Marvin Ellwood Nicholas Handsor passed away at the age of 80 years.  He was a great man.

“Ellwood” was born in Chatham on Christmas Day, 1943 and because of that, his parents Isabelle & Clarence found it fitting to include Nicholas as part of his name.  He was one of five children and is survived by his sister Judy Dudley (James) and his brothers Terry (Joy), Philip (Margo) and Jim (Deb).  At the age of 14 he found his first love…a 1957 Chevy.  Although he never did own one, he worked on countless classics, bringing them back to their original beauty.

A few years later, Ellwood fell in love again but this time with a young lady named Diane Boswell.  Maybe he never owned a ’57 Chevy, because he loved Diane more.   He would have said that his life couldn’t get better after marrying Mom in 1966 but he also would have said that it did when he and Diane became parents to two boys Marvin Kent (Julie) and Brent (Renee), grandparents to Kyler, Eden and Talon and finally great-grandparents to Roman.

Ellwood was the most welcoming, supportive and inclusive person that you could ever meet. Leaving everyone he met, whether for a moment or a lifetime, with the feeling of being loved.  He saw the good in everything and everybody.  He taught his children to be the best people that they could be and to treat others with respect and kindness.  He was a hard-working man with a great sense of humor.  It didn’t matter if you were family, a friend or someone he just met on the street, he made every encounter a time worth remembering.  He loved blues and soul music, and he loved dancing.  He put his back out once dancing to the macarena and that slowed him down for a bit but it didn’t stop him from doing it again.

He was a long-time employee of Navistar, retiring in 1997 after thirty-two years.  In his younger days he pumped gas for Duncan O’Brien at the White Rose gas station in Blenheim and in between it all, he built his own house and ran his own business called Marv’s Air Tool Repair from his basement shop and his fully equipped garage. With a knack for being able to fix or build anything he set his mind to, he was known as the “Toy Maker” in the days of CB radio. His love for building and tinkering later lead him to ham radio and a whole new world of friends as call sign VE3ZAJ.

One of the greatest lessons in life for his family has been watching the love that Ellwood shared with Diane…she was his world, and he was hers.  All through his challenges with Alzheimer’s disease, Diane was his rock.  They were a good team raising their children and a great example to their grandchildren.

The family would like to invite you to the Blenheim Community Funeral Home on Saturday September 28, 2024 to join us in celebrating a life well lived.  There will be visitation from 10:00 – 12:00.  We will share a short service with Reverend Tracey Thomas and some words of remembrance at 12:00.  Following a private family interment in Evergreen Cemetery, the family will return to the funeral home to share a time of fellowship and food with you…both things that Ellwood loved to do.

Those who would like to remember Ellwood with a memorial donation are asked to consider the Alzheimer’s Society of Chatham-Kent https://alzheimer.ca/chathamkent/en/take-action/donate  because they do great things.

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Diane , I'm so sorry I didn't know of Marv's passing - onto a better place. The Legion used to notify us of a member's passing but with a newer group some things aren't happening. Marv was wonderful !!! He always had a wonderful smile and such a jolly, harty laugh. I alway knew when he was at the Legion - his distinctive license plate VE3, it was Marv. When I was Pres. he was in the colour party and our relationship blossomed. I always enjoyed our time together after as well whenever we ran into each other. It is so difficult when you loose the love of your live. Give it time. And get out and see us all again. Jane

Diane and family - so very sorry to read this news. I apologize for being so late but just got bacck to town today. Again so sorry - John

Diane and Family, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Ellwood. We remember when the entire family lived on the 9th near Uncle LaVerne and Aunt Arlie many years ago. Hard to believe that Ellwood was 80 years old.....always thought he was younger than us. Both John and I will be 80 in December of this year. Cherish his memory and celebrate his life all the time. We will miss his cheerful smile and warm personality. Be Encouraged and always trust in God. John and Brenda Travis

Marv Sr. and Diane always made me feel welcome and seen in their home. He was a great father to two great men. He'll be missed.

So sorry to hear of the passing and homegoing of cousin Marvin Ellwood, he will be greatly missed along with his laugh and his forever joyous kindness and. Smile. My condolences and prayers go out to Diane,Brent and all family member, To give you the strength you need to carry on in his shadow and faith. Love you Rae Alden

Diane and family. Our deepest condolences. Marvin always had the biggest smile and a hearty laugh . Wayne and Shirley

Diane and family. Our deepest condolences. Marvin always had the biggest smile and a hearty laugh . Wayne and Shirley

My deepest condolences to Diane and the rest of the family on the passing of Ellwood. He was a wonderful human being. God bless everyone.

Diane & family., my deepest sympathy on your loss of Ellwood. I have the fondest memories of him! Always a beautiful smile and welcoming, super-friendly greeting. My sincere regrets I was unable to share his memorial service with you, and all of his family. I hope you know I would have been there today if possible to pay my respects, and share in your sorrow. Sincerely, Linda Dudley

This goes out to Diane and the boys and to all Marvs family. My sympathy and condolences on the loss of a great person and gentleman . RIP MARV

So sorry for your loss Diane and family❤️

We are so sorry to hear that the world has lost such a great man. Diane Marvin and Brent our hearts break for you and your families. We are sorry we missed the service today had we known mom and dad would have been there too. Our condolences to all of you - dad is devastated he missed today. May all the beautiful memories you have of Marvin forever keep this special man in your hearts.

Aunt Di and to the rest of the Handsor Boswell family . I was deeply saddened to hear of Uncle Ellwood 's passing. Indeed he was a great man and role model who simply adored his family. The world is a better place with men like him, they are hard to find these days . He had so many unique qualities that's what made him so special and that why he will be missed but never forgotten. He was always smiling and laughing no matter what the situation was as I recall. Even when the 4 boys Mark and Myself and his 2 sons played around at dr family Christmas and we might have done something we were not supposed to do when he would scold us he always smiling and this funny look on his face letting us know we did wrong but he wasn't too bent out of shape of it. It was kinda hard to take him serious. Cause at the end he was smiling and most often laughing or telling a joke after. May God bless you all and provide you with comfort and strength during these difficult and trying days ahead. By the way guys it was quite the surprise running into you guys at the hotel and myself and my fellow tenants of 99 McNaughton ave greatly appreciated you leaving the leftovers. My word it been a minute since I I had home cooked food like that. Who made the chicken HOLY CRAP IT WAS DAMM GOOD .peace out folks take care and God bless

Dean and I would like to send our deepest sympathies to the entire family. Your Father/Grandfather always had a smile on his face. Cherish your memories. Sending our Love Dean Rocheleau. & Terrylyn Timmermans

Dearest Diane and family, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved. I know there are no words that can bring comfort at this time. But I hope that as you all reflect on the wonderful memories of what a great man Ellwood was, it will fill your hearts with joy. I pray the Lord will guide and strengthen you all at this difficult time. With much love, Jackie.

Dear Diane and all your family, We are so sorry for your loss. Ellwood's smile, laughter and personality is what we will remember and cherish. Such a wonderful person who will be missed greatly by all. Wishing you all comfortand strength today and in the days to come. Hold your memories close to your heart and Ellwood will always be with you. Sincerely, Art & Susan Poole

Marv, Julie & Family We are truly sorry to hear of your father’s passing. Our thoughts & prayers to you & your family at this sad time. Pat & Doug

Marv, Julie & Family We are truly sorry to hear of your father’s passing. Our thoughts & prayers to you & your family at this sad time. Pat & Doug

Our deepest condolences to your family. Very sorry to hear of uncle Ellwood’s passing. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

To Diane and Family So sorry to hear of Marvin's passing. He always had a great smile whenever we saw him and Rick said he was well liked at Navistar. Carol and Rick Taylor

My deepest condolences to you Diane . We love you and keeping you in our prayers. I am in a nursing home currently. If I could be there We would. Much love Christina and Joseph

Diane, Brent, Marvin and your families I am sorry for your loss. I never got used to calling him Marvin. He was always Ellwood to me, and whenever I saw him he had a big smile and laughter to go with it. Diane I know you will miss having him beside you. I have long admired the way you have always been there for him. Brent and Kent you have been blessed with wonderful caring parents. As time goes on you will be able to bring back many good memories of your Dad. Find comfort in those memories.

Our condolence to Diane & family. You both were great neighbors to us in North Buxton. It was always a pleasure to chat with you both. Elwood was always willing to help wherever with whatever. Couldn't ask for a better neighbor & friend!

I am so very sorry to hear of Marvin's passing. He was a great man. I met him and Diane through joining the Merlin Legion. Marvin was part of the Colour Guard and I enjoyed asking him questions regarding the Legion. He always cheered me up if I was feeling down. He was always there for a hug. He will be missed. Condolences to the family at this difficult time.

My Sincere and Deepest Condolences to you Cousin Diane and Family on the Homegoing of Cousin Marvin.....I remember the first time I met him was at the Buxton Laborday Celebration......Cousin Marvin was so nice and engaging in great conversation with me about the Handsor's from the Kent County area and I enjoyed hearing him talk and we communicated on fb as well.... Please know that you and your Family are all in my Thoughts and Prayers and if I could be there with you all I would but just know you are in my heart during this difficult time..... Rest in Heavenly Peace Cousin Marvin.....Another Angel to Watch Over Us.....

My sincerest condolences to Diane, Marvin, Brent and their families. Marvin was truly one of a kind, always smiling. I will never forget his laugh and positive demeanor. God has another angel.

We are so very sorry to hear of your dear husbands passing. May your memories comfort you.

Diane & Family My sincere condolences to you. Marvin was always a joy to speak with and it always ended with a bright smile and a thank you. Our Love and Prayers are with you!

I'm so so sorry for your loss...he was a great guy for sure....got to see him more when he came with Diane for her hair apts....also i remember those CB days with Mom and Jerry...lol...they were a tight knit group...I was just going through my parents crawl space and found old log books and air way sequences she had ...lol My sincere condolences to Diane and the whole Family....hugs ❤️ My heart felt condo

My condolences to Diane, Brent, Renee, Julie, and Kent. Eden, Talon, Ky, and Roman. I have been fortunate enough to have been part of your extended family for over 35 years now. Marvin was a wonderful man with a huge heart and even bigger smile. He will truly be missed and fondly remembered.

My deepest condolences to the family. Ellwood's smile will forever be remembered. Many prayers are sent out to comfort you all.