Howard “Howie” Holdaway

In Loving Memory of Howard “Howie” Holdaway

June 23, 1959 – July 24, 2025

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Howard “Howie” Holdaway, a resident of Duart, Ontario, who left us on July 24, 2025, at the age of 66, following a brief and courageous battle with cancer.

Born on June 23, 1959, Howie was the beloved son of the late Ernie and Verda (Smith) Holdaway. He was the devoted husband of 17 years to Tina (van Oirschot) Holdaway, and the proud and loving father of Beven Holdaway, who was the light of his life.

Howie was predeceased by his cherished sister Cathy Watson (2025) and his nephew Jeff Watson (2015). He will be deeply missed by his brother-in-law Bob Watson.

He was a loving son-in-law to Bill and Natalie van Oirschot, and a cherished brother-in-law to Bill van Oirschot Jr. (Mel), Natalie Fletcher (Brent), Nikki van Oirschot, Darryl van Oirschot, Bryon van Oirschot (Leeann), and Robyn Perkins (Gene). Uncle Howie was adored by many nieces, nephews, and great-nieces and nephews, each of whom held a special place in his heart.

Howie was also a “Grandpa” to Noah, Josh, Nolan, and Kennedy, who brought him immense joy and pride. Howie is also lovingly remembered by his many cousins, with whom he shared a lifetime of memories, laughter, mischief, and perch. He held a special bond with his Aunt Louise and Aunt Rosemarie, who remained important and cherished figures in his life. Family meant everything to Howie, and he never missed an opportunity to show up, share a story, lend a hand, or raise a toast with those he loved.

He leaves behind a long list of friends, extended family, and kindred spirits — and no one who met him left unchanged. A special mention goes out to his best friend Betty, his Robinson/Frasier poker nuts, and the boys from Beer Church, where laughter flowed as freely as the beverages. “Bubba” from the horse racing circle was always a constant companion and deserves a heartfelt shout-out. In his final weeks, Marc and Sharon Campbell provided the kind of friendship and support that can never be repaid.

The last month of Howie’s life was spent at Chatham-Kent Hospice, where the compassionate staff offered not only comfort, but a listening ear to the endless stories he loved to tell – stories often shared with the same energy he once used to track horse race stats. To those who called or visited during this time: thank you for filling out his guest roster and giving him that final joy.

Howie was a proud Blenheim boy, known far and wide for his quick wit, unmatched storytelling, and the best damn Rice Krispie squares around. (And for those who know, yes – some are still recovering from those special brownies.) Maxwell House coffee, heated euchre games, his infectious laugh, and his deep, unwavering loyalty defined him. So did his love for his dog Bailey, who rarely left his side.

For the many nieces and nephews who knew him simply as “Uncle Howie,” especially the Watty masses, he had one last message for you all:
CHEERS!

Howie Holdaway’s spirit, humour, and love for the people around him will leave a huge hole in the lives of everyone lucky enough to know him.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Howie’s memory can be made to Chatham-Kent Hospice https://chathamkenthospicefoundation.com/donations/ , whose incredible care gave him peace and comfort in his final days.