Betty Phair

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Betty Louise Phair peacefully passed away at the Blenheim Community Village on Thursday January 4, 2024. Betty was born 92 years ago to her late parents Emma (Rogers) and Aubrey Durfy. Betty was the loving wife of the late John Phair (2009). Dear mother of Linda (Gilbert) Deschryver, Deb (Jim) Robertson, late Carla (John) Peters, Brenda (David) Knight, and Carl (Luann) Phair. Dear grandmother of Alana (Richard) Ainsworth, Jeff (Beth) Deschryver, Ryan Johnston (Jasmine McKenzie), Lacey (Mike) Dotterman, Brigen (Megan) Peters, Amber Knight, Arin Gennter, Breann Knight, Carley Phair, Dawn (Mario) Acosta, Corey (Jocelyn) Pickering, Cameron (Nichole) Pickering, as well as 15 great grandchildren and 1 great great grandchild. Betty was the dear sister of the late Don (Chris) Durfy and Roger (late Rose Marie) Durfy. Sister in law of the late Mary (late Glen) Cleveland, Don (Barb) Phair, and the late Evelyn (late Chester) Stone. Betty was the bookkeeper for Carl Phair and Sons Ltd. for many, many years and in her spare time, apart from being a busy wife and mother, enjoyed reading a good book and being a member of the Rebekah’s Lodge. Cremation has taken place and a private family interment at Evergreen Cemetery will be held at a later date. Friends wishing to honour Betty’s life with a memorial donation are asked to consider the Chatham-Kent Hospice Foundation. Online condolences may be left at

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Brenda. Sending my sincere condolences to you and your family on the passing of your Mom. Sue (Smith) Horvath

We would like to extend our sincere condolences to the entire Phair family on the passing of your Mom/Grandma. Cherish the great memories.

To the Phair Family, We are thinking of you as you go through this sad time. Our condolences. Dick and Norma

Our sincere condolences to the Phair and extended families.

Brenda We were sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. Our sympathies to you and your family. Bob and Maryanne Simpson

To the Phair Family - Please accept our sincere sympathy in the passing of Betty, our thoughts and prayers are with each of you at this difficult time. May the peace that comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the days to come.

To all of my cousins (Betty's kids) and your families ...So sad to hear...I was away went Aunt Betty passed...but happy she is now with Uncle John ...I know they will be happy to be together many great memories growing up in Phairsville on Anger St.... RIP Aunt Betty

We're so sorry to hear of Mrs. Phair's passing. Please accept our sympathy for all. Rosemary and Craig Mitton

Deb we are so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Our condolences to you and Jim.

Our sympathies to the Phair family. We are thinking of you all.

So sorry to hear of Betty's passing. She and John were always such a wonderful couple Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Doug Hodgson

Too Brenda and Dave Knight and extended family. My heart goes out to you all. Thinking of you at this difficult time may Betty rest in peace. Prayers and thoughts are with you all❤️

My sympathies to the Phair family for the loss of your mom. Thinking of you all 💕

Gary and I would like to offer our condolences to the entire family.

Phair family. We are sad to hear about the loss of Betty. You have our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with the families.

Our condolences to the Family.

Linda and Gilbert, sending our sympathy on the loss of your Mom. May she rest in peace.

Sending hugs to the family our prayers and thoughts I really enjoyed getting to know your mom ….. May your memories bring you comfort 💕

sorry to hear about your loss.

Our deepest condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Extending our sincerest condolences Linda, Gilbert and family. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Extending our sympathies to you all at this difficult time. Skip and Mary

After 92 trips around the sun well lived, after years of caring for the love of her life, she can now rest and spend eternity with John and Carla and others who went before her. She and John will be dancing❤️

Sorry for your loss. You have many good memories of her so she will always be near you.

Sincere sympathy to the entire family Maureen & Carl Atkinson

Condolences to all the family. Rest in peace, Betty.

Brenda, Dave and Phair families. Sending our condolences to you at this very difficult time. Dave and Laurie (Kirk) Harrison

Linda ,Deb Brenda ,Carl & Families Our Deepest Sympathies on passing of Mom/ Grandma Take Care

So sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. She was a very good friend and neighbor Thinking of you all

Thinking of the entire family and remembering all the fun times we had with both of your parents at parties. Your Mom loved to dance! Cherish all of those special memories.💓

Sorry to hear of her passing our sincere condolences to all the family

Sorry to learn of the passing of Betty and sending sincere sympathy to all her family. Keep all your memories with you and know she is resting in peace. Thoughts and prayers go will all the family at this difficult time.

We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Betty. We send much love and prayers to the family.

Linda,Gilbert and Family, Thinking of you and sending prayers. May all the wonderful memories be with you , Our Condolences, Michael and Barb Barron

Sincere Condolences to all of Betty’s family. Cherish all the great memories. Bradley J & Donna

Condolences to all of Betty’s family. She was a lovely lady!

Linda and family we are so very sorry for your loss. May all your happy memories help you through this sad time. Fred & Kaye

Our sincere condolences on the loss of your loved Mom, Grandma and Great Grandma. Treasure your memories of her when she was well.

Dear Brenda, Dave and families. My deepest sympathy in the passing of you mother.

To the entire Phair family, our deepest condolences. Betty and John were lifelong friends of my parents Bill and Ada. Where one went , they all went. Betty, please say Hi to John and Dad for us. I know they'll be waiting.

Dear family, Our deepest condolences with the loss of your mom.

Betty was such a nice lady and always a smile for everyone.Thinking of her family and friends..Rest in Peace Betty❤️

To Betty's whole family, we offer our condolences on the passing of your wonderful family matriarch. May your many wonderful memories comfort you and bring you peace. Sincerely, Myra (Foulis) & Don Pettit, and Shayna Taylor

We are sorry to hear about Betty. Our deepest sympathies to her family, our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Betty will be missed by all who knew her.

You have my sincere condolences at this difficult time. I have many fond memories of your family. May she R.I.P

Linda and Gilbert, Our deepest condolences on the passing of your dear Mom , May your wonderful memories of her fill your minds, warm your hearts, and carry you through this difficult time of sorrow and loss. Remembering you in our thoughts and prayers. With heartfelt sympathy to you and all your family,

Linda, Gilbert, and the Phair Families, So sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. Cherish the many happy memories you shared with her and may they bring you comfort in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sincerely, Peter & Linda

Brenda, Dave and family. Deepest sympathies to you during this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts. Sending love.

Dear Linda & Gilbert, Our deepest condolences with the loss of your mom. 🙏💖

Thoughts and prayers to all for your loss at this most difficult time May your memories you share with each other comfort you.

Our thoughts and prayers are with all the Phair family at this time. May you find comfort in your memories in the coming days.

So sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. She’ll be happy to look after John again. She was a great mom and wife. We had so many good times with both Betty and John.

Condolences to all the Phair families. Treasure all those wonderful memories.

We are so sorry to hear of Mrs Phair's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family during such sad times.

Sad to hear about Aunt Betty's passing. Have many great memories of our families living on the same street.

Sincerest condolences to Carl, Luann and family.

Sincerest condolences to the Family hoping all the great memories see you through this sad timev

To all of Betty' s wonderful family. .please know we are sending hugs and prayers. Betty was a lovely lady. She will be so missed by so many people along with her loving family.

We’re sorry to learn of Betty’s passing. Our condolences to all the family.

Linda, ease accect our sincere condences on the passing of your mother, may shw Rest in Peace

Deb, Linda , Brenda and Carl so sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

We are sorry to learn of the passing of Betty Phair. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.