Jim Stokes

A photo of Jim Stokes

Service:

Glad Tidings Community Church
Wednesday September 18, 2024
11:00 a.m.

Visitation:

Blenheim Community Funeral Home
Tuesday September 17, 2024
2:00 - 4:00 & 6:00 - 8:00 p.m.
A Masonic Lodge service will be held at 5:30 p.m.
A Royal Canadian Legion service will be held at 5:45 p.m.

Lieutenant-Colonel Thomas James Stokes, CstJ, GCLJ, GomLJ, KH.,msc. Ret’d. Born on July 30th, 1930, the son of Lester Stokes, a veteran of World War One. Jim to everyone or the Colonel loved this village of Erieau. He was a proud veteran and would enjoy sitting down with a beverage and chatting about the Service and the accomplishments of his dad Lester Stokes during World War One and the love of sailing. He was also a very generous person and would help with donations to the Word of Life Church. Being a veteran, he enjoyed his Legion dinners for veterans and Remembrance Day. Throughout his career beginning with the cadet and then being a teacher and then serving with the Reserves with the Kent Regiment and then joining the Regular Force in 1953 along with his wife Ruth. Jim along with his wife were members of a lot of different organizations over the years.

He was an avid sailor and was commodore of the Erieau Yacht Club and Director, sailed many of the larks and won quite a few races over the years.  Jim has received many awards, decorations and commendations, not only during his military service career but in his civilian life.  His honours and awards were Commander for Her Majesty’s personal guard 1973. Awarded the Queens silver jubilee medal. Awarded The Canadian Centennial medal, awarded Canda 125th medal. Knight Commander hospitaller order of Saint John’s. Long service Medal of the most venerable order of Saint Johns.  Director of the Last Post Fund.

Honoured by the queen as the Officer of the most venerable order of the hospital of Saint Johns of Jerusalem. Awarded the Paul Harris fellowship. Awarded the Grand Officer of Merit the military and hospitaller Order of Saint Lazarus of Jerusalem. Awarded Queens Golden Jubilee medal. Awarded the Knight Grand Cross the military an hospitaller Order of Saint Lazarus of Jerusalem. These medals, awards and commendations are just a few of James attributes in who Jim was.

Jim was Commanding Officer of the Argyll and Sutherland Highlands of Hamilton, Life member of the Canadian Infantry Association, and the Argyll Sergeants Mess. Past Executive member of the Navy League of Canada, Past Chairman of Provincial Sailing Regatta, Provincial Staff Officer, of St. John’s Ambulance, Past President Blenheim Rotary Club, Governors Representative for Rotary, Commander Maritime Command.  Past Executive Member of the Navy League of Canada, Hamilton Branch.  Director Army Cadet League of Canada.

With all these accolades, honours and awards, Jim never spoke of them but enjoy talking about the service and sailing on Rondeau Bay in the Larks. Always had a smile on his face and a story to tell you. You lived a full life Jim in service to others. Sail on Jim Sail on.

Jim was the loved husband of Ruth, proud father of the Kathy & Doug and Jamie (2015) & Shannon.  Grandfather of Melissa, Justin and Jayme-Ruth and Great-Grandfather of Kaiden, Ryley and Natielia.

Visitation will be held at the Blenheim Community Funeral Home on Tuesday September 17, 2024 from 2:00 – 4:00 & 6:00 – 8:00 p.m.  A Funeral Service for Jim will be held in Glad Tidings Community Church on Wednesday September 18, 2024 at 11:00 a.m.  Interment will take place in Riverside Cemetery, Sombra.

Those wishing to remember Jim with a memorial donation are asked to consider the Chatham-Kent Hospice.  Online condolences for the family and memorial donations can be made at www.blenheimcommunityfuneralhome.com

Those wishing to remember Jim with a memorial donation are asked to consider the Chatham-Kent Hospice https://chathamkenthospicefoundation.com/donations/.  Online condolences for the family and memorial donations can be made at www.blenheimcommunityfuneralhome.com

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Dear Ruth. I remember the day you and I graduated and received our "msc". Jim who had also received his was so proud of us! Ever since then we have all been friends for life and shared so many life experiences. Jim was the best role model for Canadian pride. I am truly grateful to have traveled with him. Rest in peace dear comrade.

He will be greatly missed by all those who knew him, and his many years of distinguished service to our country will always be remembered. He was a remarkable gentleman who approached every activity with tremendous energy and devotion. His long-standing support of the Order of Saint Lazarus is particularly appreciated and is an example of his kindness and generosity of spirit. My sincere condolences go to his family at this difficult time.

I got to know "Jim" while serving with the Last Post Fund, at which time I was able to spend some time with the love of his life, Ruth. I always enjoyed conversations with this fine gentleman. Coincidently, I bumped into a photo of Jim, his father and Ruth proudly displayed at Avril Williams Guest House in France on September 10th. Bless you Jim and thank you for a lifetime of service. Love to you Ruth.

Sincere condolences to you Ruth, and your family. It was a pleasure to have known such an amazing man. Always a warm smile and chat. Take comfort in all the memories you hold in your heart.

Ruth and Cathy and family so sorry to here about Jim. I think of him often remembering all the good times at Elections Canada and all the great stories he told. Sending all my love Cathy aka (Friday)

Dear Ruth, Kathy and Jamie and families, I cannot image Erieau without Jim, his stories, smile, always sorting sailing equipment for the EYC or just sitting down and having a conversation in his chair, with a whiskey with his friends each week. Please know how much we valued him as a member of the community and as a neighbour on Mariner's Road. The boys always loved visiting - so much to look at! Our prayers and thoughts will be with all of you this week and over the next year as the anniversaries of his birthday, Christmas and family traditions pass without him. with love, Kara, Rod, Seumas & Niall xx

Although its devistating news to hear a mentor of mine has passed. He has been the corner stone of the Argyll regiment and P&D for me. I wish him everlasting piece where he is now. DMaj Ben Jaeckle

Although its devistating news to hear a mentor of mine has passed. He has been the corner stone of the Argyll regiment and P&D for me. I wish him everlasting piece where he is now. DMaj Ben Jaeckle

I always enjoyed spending time with Jim, his mischievous nature and comments always resulted in some good natured chiding back and forth; and of course I could never get enough stories out of him about my dad, Erieau, the Erieau Yacht Club, and his life in the service. There were maybe one or two too many times I ended up popping by for a few drinks and some EYC advice but who can blame me, he was wise counsel! Our hearts are with Ruth in this difficult time and we send our sincere condolences.

Ruth & family, sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Jim was very kind, such a nice guy, with so many great stories.

On behalf of the Fearman Family, and our late parents Doug and Winifred, we send our deepest condolences to all the Stokes Family at this difficult time.

My deepest condolences to you Ruth and family. Jim was an amazing person to talk to . Always with a smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Some great memories have been made. God bless.

RIP Sir. I served 1969 - 1971 with the Argylls, came up through the Cadet Corp. I remember his taking us on a cruise of the bay after a Regimental event. Celebrate his life and remember the good times.

Our sincere condolences to Ruth and Family We had some great times with Jim and Ruth at the Lodge in Blenheim , he will certainly be missed. KevinRumble and Bev McVicar

To Ruth and Family Our condolences to Ruth and family in the loss of a wonderful man Bev and Kevin Rumble

my condolences to the stokes family he was a great lcol as i served from 1972 to 1975 as cpl rip and god bless you

Ruth and Family: Nancy Louise and I send our deepest condolences to you and the family in the loss of Jim. We will remember all the wonderful times we had with the Regiment. Our prayers are with you and the family during this difficult time. Jeannette and Nancy Louise Hodgen

Ruth and family, we send our love and prayers to you at this very sad time. I am sure my mom and dad were there to welcome Jim home. Dad and John Terrence are probably sharing a wee dram with him. With love from the Pollington family.

It was a privilege to know Jim. I feel a true hole with his passing

Rest in Peace Uncle Jim. Thank you for all the amazing memories.

My condolences to Ruth and family. Going to miss my visits with you both. Jim was an amazing man, always there to help others.

Jim was such a big part of our lives at Erieau and was always a pleasure to be with. Whether providing parts for a Lark, raising the signal flags for an EYC function or just enjoying light-hearted banter we could always count on Jim being there. He'll be missed, but his memory will live on. Our sincere condolences, Tim and Kasi Bresnahan

Ruth, Kathy and family, Word's come with sincere difficulty at this time of Jim's passing. He was a true gentleman, great friend and mentor who we shall truly miss. May fair winds and calm seas be with him on his final journey. RIP Jim. Sincerely, Pat and Barry.

I met Jim in June of this year and immediately loved his smile, positive attitude, joke and stories. It was delightful to spend time with him. He came to the awards ceremony to support Ruth who was receiving an award recognizing her volunteer service. He had been working in the yard repairing the lawn that day. I expressed my amazement and he replied “It had to be done and who else is going to do it?” He was truly a wonderful person and supportive husband.

Ruth you and Jim provided outstanding service to your country and your community. We have been fortunate to be a small part of that service to the community and the world through Rotary. Thank you for sharing Jim with us over the last 30 plus years, what wonderful memories. I enjoyed a wonderful visit with him on his Birthday, and I will always remember Jim’s birthday as it is same date as my daughters, just a few years difference. You take a deep breath and take good care of Ruth, and we will all be keeping Jim’s memories alive, each in our way. Don & Nancy

Ruth you and Jim provided outstanding service to your country and your community. We have been fortunate to be a small part of that service to the community and the world through Rotary. Thank you for sharing Jim with us over the last 30 plus years, what wonderful memories. I enjoyed a wonderful visit with him on his Birthday, and I will always remember Jim’s birthday as it is same date as my daughters, just a few years difference. You take a deep breath and take good care of Ruth, and we will all be keeping Jim’s memories alive, each in our way. Don & Nancy

On behalf of the Pilon family, I'd like to offer my sincere condolences to Ruth, Kathy and their family, as well as to the surviving members of his sister, Bette and her husband Bill's family, on the passing of husband, father, grandfather and uncle, Jim. Jim has been a long standing fixture in the Erieau community, and was known by all, both summer and year round residents alike. He always, wore a smile as an essential part of his 'look' and both Jim and his smile will be missed by many. Rest easy, Jim.

Condolences to the family, I have fond memories of Jim, Ruth and Papa Stokes as a child growing up in Erieau. ⚓️

Ruth, Kathy Doug and Family Our condolences and Prayers to you all in this time of sadness. We will Remember Jim with memories of all picnics and boat ride at his home in Erieau In summers for the E&K Scot’s and Regimental Families. May Jim RIP God Bless Dara and James Pfeifer OConner

Thinking of you all, God’s peace.

We are deeply sorry to hear about Jim. May he rest peacefully. You’re in our prayers.

Ruth and family, please know that I will be thinking of you all at this sad time . I have known Jim all of my life and will miss his smiling face and his stories . Rest well my friend. Love , Margie

May fair Winds follow Jim as he organizes the services of Heaven. I will miss the teasing & the cheeky wink. My best love goes out to Ruth & any support I can give. Yours Aye

Ruth and family we are sorry to hear of Jim's passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Ruth my condolances and those of The Argyll Regimental Association to you and your family on Jim's passing. It was my honour to serve with him and to call him my friend. Albainn gu Brath

Our most sincere and deepest condolences to the family of Jim Stokes. He was always an interesting and pleasant gentleman to talk to and he will be missed by many.

For thee last 20 years, Jim fought many health battles and managed to overcome most of them. This last one was just too much. Jim spent a lot of time at my "shop" in the summer and on our porch in the winter. I learned a great deal about the Cold War and him receiving hostile fire while on the Berlin wall. He was also most interested in talking to other war veterans who had faced combat looking especially of the details of their battles. The military was his life even in retirement. His many medals and commendations are a testament to that fact. He had many visits from active members of the Essex and Kent Scottish regiment and other regiments including commanding officers and rank and file members. Jim was a great friend with a lot of life knowledge. I really enjoyed my time with him and Ruth. His legacy is that he lived respected and died regretted. I will miss you dearly my friend.

Dear Ruth , you and Jim were role models for me over more than three decades since I joined the Order of St. Lazarus. I remember his contributions to the order both at the Commandery and the National level, but his welcoming me and my wife as new members was wonderful. He was both a friend and mentor. You have my sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Peter roe

Jim was a wonderful leader and a very important supporter of numerous community organizations. Patti and I send love to the family. Regrettable we are away on vacation and will not be back in time for the service. God Bless the family. RIP my fellow veteran!

Sincere condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with yous.🙏

Dear Ruth and family, The Knights, Dames, Members and Friends of The Military and Hospitaller Order of Saint Lazarus of Jerusalem Grand Priory in Canada join me in sending sincere condolences on Jim's passing. He was a role model for us all and his wisdom will be sorely missed. We will remember him and be praying for you as navigate the waters of grief and the shoals of sorrow in the coming months. Our prayers are with you.

What a wonderful and kind man - always thinking of others. I feel fortunate to have known Jim for over 30 years through our common Blenheim Rotary Club connection. The "Colonel" as I liked to call him was full of stories, welcoming to anyone and everyone and always available to make time to chat. We shared a number of scotch drinks (single malt) over the years - always accompanied with rich and enjoyable conversations. Jim was also a very positive thinker in seeing the best in everyone. Tiina & Terrance McNaughton